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Thank you *so much* for suggesting mail_from, ruthlessbookie. It solved my problem when nothing else seemed to work. I’m running WP / single user, and tried every suggestion I found:

What did not work:

– disabling everything except BP (notifications worked fine with BP off)

– setting up SMTP plugins with gmail

– setting up SMTP with my own host (hostmonster)

– installing the BP update

What DID work:

– mail_from plugin — Whoo hoo!

So glad there’s a solution. Will take a look at xmsmmgrs’s suggestion next. Thanks!