Re: How to remove the real name
That’s not the real name, it’s the username of that person, and we put it up there to make it more obvious concerning the @messaging functionality.
To take it out, just override /bp-default/members/single/member-header.php in your child theme and edit line 11:
<h2 class="fn">"><?php bp_displayed_user_fullname() ?> <span class="highlight">@<?php bp_displayed_user_username() ?> <span>?</span></span></h2>