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I set up WP 3.0 and the latest BP (1.2.4.1 I think), and then tried plugins which turned out only to show on some UberAdmin menu that I’ve never seen and can’t get to display.

WP and BP are easy to install, but sure as hell NOT easy to build sites with.

Oh, and @hnla; the problem is that neither here nor there are providing definitive answers much of the time when it involves overlapping issues, eg., Is it WP, or is it BP? Who knows? The smart ones who code it all do, but most of us are struggling to work with kitchen-sink design.