BuddyPress.org

Video – via Oembed for BuddyPress – Input any URL from one of video sites listed in plugin info into an activity update or forum post in BuddyPress.- https://buddypress.org/community/groups/oembed-for-buddypress/

BP Media plugin – not sure if the plugin can do that already, but check it out.

Flickr update in member profile – va BP Flickr Plugin by @sbrajesh

Images/Music/Video upload in Status Updates and media shows up in Activity streams when posted in Gallery BP Gallery Plugin by @sbrajesh. This is a paid plugin.