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Yeah, that certainly looks a mess.

If you have a new install then maybe you need to do it again, unless you can reconstruct the wp-config.php file….

It is probably not a good idea to use any host’s ‘automated’ install (if there is one) as so many people have problems afterwards.

What might be simpler, quicker and less work is to talk to your friend/host as he may have a better idea what’s going on… including the available memory and ways to increase it if still necessary….