Re: You know you spend TOO much time with BP if….
What might help is visiting other social networks and create a Facebook fanpage and a Twitter account and start following people who have something to do with your site’s subject.. Also you might write blogposts about your site’s subject and makes sure they are picked up by google (SEO plugin might help).. Good luck with finding users for your site.. I’m sure their out there, just have to find them and point them to your site!