Re: BP Help
“I have a custom theme that was built for me “
Change theme to bp-default theme, the custom theme might be causing the errors so contact theme author.
“update my bp to the current version”
Go to dashboard – Plugins > Installed. Look for BuddyPress link in list – you will see link to update the plugin automatically.
EDIT- backup database plus server files before upgrading BP. Just checked your site and noticed that your theme is using BP 1.1.3 theme … unless the theme author made it work with BP 1.2+ but forgot to change the info in style.css which is kind far-fetched.