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I realize that the query is with 0s. That is the problem. I am suggesting that even though you are “sure 100%” that you are passing the correct IDs to the function, the way that you are concatenating the query string might be corrupting it.

In any case, I am confused about what’s actually failing here. Are you using the function BP_Friends_Friendship::check_is_friend(), or are you writing your own function? If the former, change the `$result = ` line to the following
`$query = $wpdb->prepare( “SELECT id, is_confirmed FROM {$bp->friends->table_name} WHERE (initiator_user_id = %d AND friend_user_id = %d) OR (initiator_user_id = %d AND friend_user_id = %d)”, $loggedin_userid, $possible_friend_userid, $possible_friend_userid, $loggedin_userid );
print_r( $query );
$result = $wpdb->get_results( $query );`
so that you can see if the query is being put together correctly. If not, dump the contents of $loggedin_userid and $possible_friend_userid just before these lines to see if you are, in fact, passing values to the function.

If the last query reads 0s where there should be valid ids, you are probably not constructing the query correctly. Are you using $wpdb->prepare, with sprintf syntax?
`$query = $wpdb->prepare( ‘SELECT id, is_confirmed FROM {$bp->friends->table_name} WHERE (initiator_user_id = %d AND friend_user_id = %d) OR (initiator_user_id = %d AND friend_user_id = %d)’, $initiator_user_id, $friend_user_id, $initiator_user_id, $friend_user_id );`

(I’m not sure if this is your exact query, but you get the idea.)

If it still isn’t working, then as an experiment, try passing the prepare() arguments as strings – replace %d with %s in the replacement patterns.

I suggest you dump your variables/query string just before AND just after the query is constructed in this manner, to see whether prepare() is causing the problem.

Ask them if they see anything relevant in the log file or from any usage stats they might record.

BuddyPress’ SQL is fine. Your SQL server might be dropping connections. Is this on your own server, or is it being hosted by someone? I’d suggest that you ask them to check your SQL database and look at the number of active connections allowed. Something must be a little bit off-kilter somewhere, or they are throttling database queries.

Hi, I should preface this by saying that I’m not a BuddyPress developer as such, but have been coding WordPress themes professionally for a couple of years, and have been researching BP and putting together a BP-based startup for the past couple of months, so have been through these questions myself, and my own early steps may prove useful.

1. See https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/bp-profile-privacy/

2. https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/buddypress-private-community/ might be interesting. There’s another, more granular, privacy plugin that the community has its fingers crossed for, for further details see http://bp-privacy.com/

3. All of that should, and does, happen as a matter of course.

4. Semantics aside, they are all “subscribers” as far as WP is concerned, ie. members and commenters are one and the same.

5. BuddyPress themes contain extra template files for the parts of BP that are an extension on the WP template system (eg. activity, groups, user profile etc.) plus various css and javascript files. Running a regular WP theme with BP running won’t give you the framework to display that BP functionality. In order to achieve that, your WP theme needs the extra template files. You have two options, each with benefits and drawbacks:

a) Extend your existing theme with the required template files, javascript and css to enable and display the BuddyPress sections and functionalities. See https://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/bp-template-pack/ The drawback is that next time BuddyPress is updated, you might be faced with quite a fair amount of development getting your site aligned with the latest code base, new features etc.

b) Constructing a child theme. This relies on running the Default theme, and then adding your own css overrides and theme hacks as a non-destructive layer on top. The principle is that you can strip away your own additions, and you’ve still got the Default theme running beneath it, so in a sense it’s “unbreakable” and whilst you may need to modify your additions once BP is next updated, the underlying template will always function. With a decent caching strategy, unless you’ve expert level php behind you, I think it’s the way to go.

Why have you posted on the back of a another thread? Did nothing in what I mentioned above about asking detailed questions, supplying a little bit of background information on your situation / setup make sense?

Please do as is expected, if you really need help, post a new thread rather than piggy back of another only possibly related post, supply detail so that we do not have to start of by asking you questions that shouldn’t be necessary.

Closing this thread.

Locking topic, too many old posts on this forum get resurrected, not generally an accepted practice on boards.

@n_sane a little advise if you really want help you must formulate a detailed question which describes the issue and any attempts at rectifying it, along with your setup in terms of app versions and server, simply stating there’s an issue will not get very far as we have to start asking you a whole series of questions just to get that detail from you, ergo much of our volunteered free time wasted.

Yes, have a read through the Codex documentation, then if any questions post back to this thread.

@residentcusano I have closed the other two threads, please take heed of my comments in one of them and also of modemloopers above.

There is a right way and a wrong way to ask questions on tech forums the RFC on the subject is this link below, it might pay to give it a little glance over.

http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html

What does it say in the readme text, what does the authors homepage say? buddypress.org is a support forum for matters directly related to BP and it’s default theme and plugins that are specific to it.

Someone here may know of this plugin but in general you should ask these questions of the plugin author and/or study the installation guides.

@ residentcusano can you please not simply jump around posts with the same question, you have asked this in another post , once only is the golden rule, please also could you start to actually ask questions in a detailed and considered manner rather than simply barking out requests that are somewhat vague it’s up to you to make things as clear as possible so that people can help you effectively.

Closing this thread.

Hello Buddypress, can someone that has fixed this issue please post the solution? Seems like the forum is scattered with questions about this problem.

This also is a problem for me as well. My client has no way of knowing when new questions are posted and does not have the ability to send emails to the entire group, please advise. Thanks

Dear hlna,

In most of the support forums I participate people is encouraged to do exactly the opposite, because you could end having too many people asking the same questions. I think its better that people that had the same problem read the same suggestions to solve them.

BUT if you are the moderator and those are the rules, I respect them. Should I create a new topic to ask the same question and receive the same answers?

Regards,
Joel

With my moderators hat on: Can I please remind people that on tech forums it is frowned upon to hijack threads i.e have two or more people asking questions within the one topic, this is due to threads rapidly becoming confused, my question was directed at ? one person but another replied in answer to it, this thread and it’s responses belong to the original OP or at least are meant to.